“Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the LORD your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.”
Someone asked me, “What does it mean to face your fear head on and not run away? What does it look like?”
I said, “That’s a very good question. Each situation is different, but in many ways, facing fear head on means knowing that the fear is there, like a fierce-looking lion threatening to tear you into pieces, but you don’t move back even one step or run away like you used to, you face it even with trembling, and you look at it in the eye and say, ‘Yes, I know you are here, I know you are scary, and I feel it very strongly, but I will be standing right here, I am not going anywhere. You do not control my life. God does, and He wants me to face you, so I will.’ It means accepting how you are feeling, and accepting how the other person(s) are feeling (if other people are involved), and not trying to deny any of those by trying to find reasons to convince yourself that it is not true, or that something bad would happen if you trust that or if you stay or if you move forward.
Now there are situations where we could take the next step forward and not just stand still, or even ‘tip toe’ like they say, but there are also situations that do not allow you to take the next step, so you stay where you are. The point is not to move forward at the moment, the point is to look at the scary lion in the eye and not shrink back.
It might sound a little bit like OCD treatment, and it does have some aspect of that, but most importantly, it is knowing your heart, knowing that you ran away before because you wanted security, and running away is not going to give you real security, it just pushes you further into a trap that Satan has set up for you. The only place where you will find security is in Jesus Christ. He has made you one with the Lord, so you are now God’s child. Nothing in this world can separate you from his love (Romans 8:37-39), and He is true to his promise, ‘I will never leave you nor forsake you.’ (Deuteronomy 31:6) Remember what pain and suffering that Jesus went through on the cross to redeem you, to make you a beloved of the Father, to make you the apple of his eye (Psalm 17:8), to give you his peace and security (John 16:33), then you know what you fear is a lie and it does not come from the Father, but the devil.
And this time you know you are not alone when you feel afraid, because the Lord is with you, Jesus is with you, the Holy Spirit is with you, in One – that, my friend, is the Power that created the whole world, the Power that raised our Savior Jesus from death so that we may have a new heart and a new life! And this time, you can move forward, you can run, and run into HIS arms.”